障がい者の性 – Medical Sex Worker

障がい者の性 – Medical Sex Worker

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[Ejaculation Assistance – A sexual care service
provided by White Hands] [for severely physically disabled men
who cannot masturbate alone.] [The service falls under the domain of
public welfare, and the staff are] [licensed professionals in
assisted living, nursing, or medical care.] [Approx. 20 staff currently provide ejaculation
assistance nationwide to 80 -100 clients a year.] Please stop over there. I used to work as a caregiver for both
the mentally and physically disabled. It was while working with a mentally disabled person that I first began to consider the sexual
difficulties these people were facing. That’s what led me to start doing this sort of work. Most people with mental impairments
haven’t had any sexual experience, and they’ve never been taught how to deal with the desires welling up inside them. Often they can’t even comprehend what those urges are. As a result, they would rub up against me,
or if I moved out of their sight, they would
get uneasy and start hurting themselves. They can’t process the state of
sexual excitement affecting them, so some would just pull their pants down and walk around. These sexual difficulties keep many of our clients from leading fulfilling lives. If they had a way to relieve their sexual urges,
or get support that would teach them to face their sexuality, then it might make it easier
for them to communicate. White Hands believes that this sort of sexual release is helpful in improving their lives. I guess I sympathized with this idea. At White Hands, our goal is to help alleviate sexual difficulties facing the disabled. We mainly provide “ejaculation care” for those with severe physical impairments like
cerebral palsy or muscular dystrophy. We send out care staff who are
capable of providing this service. I heard something interesting at
an industry lecture meeting recently. The mother of someone with Down syndrome was saying that her son is an angel
completely free of any sexual desire. But actually, the son would get excited and aroused whenever a girl idol group
appeared on TV. Yet his mother chose to ignore this, even though it was right in front of her. Clearly, the problem is with the mother rather than the son. It’s society at large projecting our own beliefs onto the disabled. The mother was blinded by her wish that her
son were an angel, not a sexual being. People are pushing their ideals onto the disabled.
That’s the problem. Today’s client is in his 30s and has cerebral palsy. He’s a very frank person and is quite
thoughtful towards his caregivers. He always greets me with a big smile whenever I arrive. It helps to create a friendly atmosphere. He has a nice smile. He’s also very considerate. Even if I make a mistake, he’s always patient. He’s a wonderful person. We usually chat before I start getting everything ready. Finding the right point in our conversation to segue into the preparation
can be a bit awkward sometimes. It’s best if the conversation ended naturally
but that doesn’t always happen. I have to keep the conversation short yet long enough to keep it friendly. I’m still working on how to end
our conversations smoothly. – Good afternoon.
– Hello. – I’ll just step inside.
– Please do. – Hello there.
– Come in. It’s been awhile, hasn’t it. Did you see the cherry blossoms? – Not yet.
– No? They’re in full bloom now. They’re early this year. Right, last year they didn’t bloom until April. Shall we get started? My parents are nearly 70 years old. So even though it’s what I do as a caregiver, I’m concerned about how they would
react when they found out that their daughter is massaging men’s genitals
as part of her job. They would probably be concerned.
So I haven’t told them. – Are you comfortable?
– Yes. – Sure?
– I’m fine. Tell me if it’s too hot. I’m going to pull your pants down, OK? I’ll wipe you down. – Too hot?
– No, it’s fine. I’m putting the lube on. It’s going on now. – Does this hurt?
– No. – Do you want me to do it harder?
– No, it’s fine. – The tip.
– The tip? Here? – I’m going to cum.
– OK. – It’s coming out.
– Whenever you’re ready. – Is that OK?
– Yes. Usually, I go to their home and take care of them
within the space of 30 minutes. I arrive, prepare, massage them,
they ejaculate, and that’s it. Good-bye. It all feels a bit empty. I think our clients yearn for something
that’s more emotionally involved. Something that isn’t just caregiving, you know?
It’s hard to explain. (Do any of your friends use this service?)
Not right now. I guess this type of thing, well… Even if you tell someone this kind of service exists, most will hesitate to use it themselves. So even when I tell my friends, most of the time they never follow up on it. I guess in the end, people feel uncomfortable about this sort of thing. No matter how many times I explain about the
type of caregivers who come and about how things are done, they still feel resistant about receiving the service themselves. But I’ve always been open-minded with a fearless attitude so I wasn’t resistant to the idea. Disabled people are human too. We also have needs and desires. I have particularly strong desires. It’s only natural that I have sexual needs because I’m human. Many people don’t understand that. They just can’t comprehend it. It looks like I’ll be switching jobs soon. Good for you. It’d be nice to see you again
after everything settles down. – Are you fine lying down like that?
– Yes. – Make sure you don’t catch a cold, OK?
– You too. I will, thank you. – Take care then.
– Thank you. I’ll be on my way. – I’m leaving now.
– OK, see you. I don’t view myself as a sex worker. I’m a caregiver. Sex workers cater to the clients’ desires in an explicit way. But the sexual assistance we provide
caters to fundamental needs. It’s the same mindset as caring for
basic human functions like continence care. All humans have sexual urges. Regular people can deal with these urges themselves,
in various ways. But our clients have physical impairments.
For instance, their hands or legs are paralyzed and they can’t move freely. They aren’t able to deal with these urges on their own. I feel a sense of duty. I had been working with the disabled for a while
when, one day, I happened to stumble upon this issue by chance. Once I found out about it,
I felt I needed to do something. At the same time, it’s a shame that
the only way for the disabled to relieve themselves is through such services. We all have sex drives. It’s human nature. I hope that I can help my clients release at least some of these pent-up physical urges.


  1. 盲点だったとしかいいようがない…自分が無知だということを知らされた気分だ。

  2. 知的障害者大切にするなら、健常者をもっと大切にしろよ、実際センズリも出来ないバカ長生きさせて何になるのか?健常者だって仕事無くて金が無くなり精神崩壊して自殺も多い、生きるか死ぬかって時代なんだから。日本は弱者を甘やかし過ぎだ。

  3. まずな若い健常者が仕事無くて家賃払えなくなりホームレスになってるんだ しかし障害者は生活保護貰って家に住み食い物にも困らない、女性にチンコまでシゴイテもらえるって おかしくないか?

  4. これって、女性への介助もあるのだろうか? 女性ももちろん性欲はあるから、平等に行われているといいなと思う。

  5. どうせデリの面接で断れた女の仕事だろ。追加払えば本番OKの女、障害者の性支える前に健常者がホームレスやってるのが日本の現状だ、障害者のティンコ シゴイテ 私は良い事してますって考えは間違いだと思う。ホワイトハンズさん、今すぐ考え改めるべきだ健常者が食う飯も寝る場所も無くホームレスやってるのに障害者が生活保護頂いて住む場所にも困らず食い物にも困らず酒飲んでティンコまでシゴイて貰えるのはおかしくないか?

  6. これでも笑っていられる彼らになんの障害も持ってない自分は色々と考えさせられる。

  7. 気持ち悪いと思うけど

  8. 僕は18歳の男です

  9. 手袋は失礼すぎでしょ。

  10. 実際私は福祉施設での実習中に中度知的障害をもった中学生に部屋に施錠され羽交い締めにされ、その時はにげれたものの実習中にずっと執着され施設の職員さんとどうしていくか話し合った経験があります。こういう仕事はとても大切なことだとおもいます^^

  11. 初めて知りました。

  12. 淡々と作業的で虚しいな…

  13. こんな仕事があるなんて知らなかった

  14. 最近は風俗でも介護の有り無し表記してくれてるもんね(資格の有る方も在籍)。

  15. これはとても尊敬されるべき職業だと思う。

  16. 僕わ、発達障害持っとるけど!!

  17. みんながすすんでやりたい!と思わないような事をできるのは素晴らしいと思う。

  18. 北欧では性交まで許されています。賛否両論ある事ですがノーマライゼーションの理念なのです。

  19. 赤い服の脳性麻痺の人さぁ、最初は世間話とかして雰囲気いいみたいな事を介助する人がタクシー内で言ってたけど、6:30位で食い気味に、じゃあ早速。って言葉を放たれてわかった。脳性麻痺の人は世間話なんかしたくなくて、とにかく早く発射してーんだなって事と、一応いきなり頼むのが申し訳ないのか、つまらん桜の話に軽く乗って、和まそうとする、気を使う一面もあるんだなと。俺も事故して寝たきりだった時にこの人にお願いできたのかな?

  20. 射精介護で賛否両論がある原因は恐らく日本はまだ性への理解が遅れすぎてる原因でもあって障害者の人たちは性欲がないイメージが強く残りすぎてるのが原因でもあり仮に射精介護で性欲処理をしてもらってから当事者の人はそのケアをやってもらった人に依存してしまうのではないかと思われてしまうことで健常者の人たちは余計に困惑するのかもしれない。

  21. 税金の無駄。

  22. まずこの動画に出てくれた障がい者の方に敬意を評したい。

  23. なんかこの障害者のおじさんに親近感沸く

  24. 健常者が当たり前に分かちあっていることを共有できないことは、それがセックスの悦びや、普通に走る、話す、食べることだと思うと物凄く辛いと思う

  25. する時ってどんな感情なんだろう…複雑だよね…自分でできないから相手にしてもらうんだけど…女の人にやって貰ってるって考えたら…男の人で相手がいない人がそういう場所に行ったり…出会い系のやつとあんまり変わらないような気がする…もしこれ出なかったらいつまでやるんだろう…

  26. これ代わりに本物の風俗嬢じゃダメなのかな?せめてお互い裸になるとか。手袋はめられてなんか事務的な感じだよね。ご本人も言ってるけど、味気ない。この位のサポートなら障害者専用のテンガとかあれば良いのにと思うよ。

  27. たまにデリヘルとかにオプション欄に『障害者』っていうのあるよな…×の嬢が殆どだけど…

  28. If this bitch really wanted to help she would not charge. She only enjoys sex when she is being paid for it. Women just will not admit to it. They are the ones cursing the earth with their shameless dishonesty and sadistic libido.

  29. I like this episode a lottttt but I’m a teacher for secondary school students I’m not supposed to post this on my Facebook

  30. こういう人に税金があてがわれるべきであって、生活保護を貰ってパチンコでするような人間は逮捕すべき。

  31. 食欲、睡眠欲、性欲は誰しもがあるものですし、軽々しく否定はできません。

  32. 数ヶ月前だけど背中の左側の神経を痛めて体が脳性麻痺の人みたいにグニャリと曲がったまま生活したことがある、起きてる時も寝てる時も痛くて仕方がなかった。万が一この曲がった体のまま一生過ごすことになったら屋上から飛び降りるか首搔き切って死のうと考えていた。治療の甲斐あって今は普通に暮らしてるけど、この動画の障害者って一生治らない病を抱えながらも性欲満たすことが生きがいになってるんだよね?ある意味力強いは

  33. ある動画で自閉症の子供をもつ親は

  34. 「障害者も人間なんで」はわかるけど世の中にはほんとに見下してもいいガイジもいるんやけどね。

  35. 再生数も凄いけど、コメント数(反響)もまた凄い。年齢制限のある動画は初めてでした。

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